GET ON YOUR FEET (Make It Happen) – Gloria Estefan on YouTube
“One day’s commemoration, no matter how special, is not enough. We know the march is not over. We know the race is not yet run.”
The above quote is from the president’s speech at the 50th anniversary of the march at Selma, Alabama, that took place this weekend and which was a defining moment for civil rights in the US all those years ago.
However, as much of what was said was directed to racial equality in America, much of what he said I thought applied very well to all such pushes for equality, to be found anywhere.
This is why I included it here for my March 8th post on
The biggest things I am hearing today, not unlike any time feminism of any kind is discussed, are as follows:
**Both men and women like to ask why we need a day to talk about or celebrate women? Shouldn’t women be celebrated every day of the year? What good does singling girls and women out on just one day out of the year do?
I ask these questions too. I hear the same basic question asked about Black History Month, for example. I wonder it every time a day is set aside to focus on anything disability related. I wish I wasn’t scooped up, as far as my blindness goes, into one day.
The day is only a brief twenty-four hours long and then it is back to the status quo. A lot of the rest of the time I feel ignored and misrepresented all the others.
In my more negative moments I ask myself what any of these days actually accomplish.
Is it those who are the first to call out feminism of any kind as a movement for separation and blame that is the problem? Do certain people not want equal rights for women talked about because that might actually make a difference for change in the future? Why does that threaten so many, so very much?
Why should we be ashamed and made to feel like we, men or women, are either bragging, or whining, or making too much of the issue?
**This day is being turned into a silly day of fluff and commercialized and that it should be just about the serious.
Of course a lot of what is talked about is serious stuff. It is an international problem that we need to work on together, internationally. It shouldn’t be taken lightly or for granted, that we even have this day be what it now is.
More than twenty years ago there was nothing like it to celebrate, not like we have it now. That is not so long ago still.
Right now I am reading a lot about women traveling safely because I am hoping to travel more myself. I have both that and the fact of my disability to contend with when traveling and this is not a small thing.
Again, I feel like I am being silly or making more of it than I really should. Why do I feel like that?
I am about to watch the highly controversial documentary about the brutal gang rape and death of a woman on a bus in India.
I will be writing about my thoughts on the documentary this week, once I’ve seen for myself how the matter was dealt with in the film.
I have said it before, but it bears repeating.
I am lucky to have been born where I was and living where I do. Canada is not somewhere I feel unsafe on a daily basis. I know a big part of that is how I was raised and the blessings I have had, although things aren’t always perfect, but I want to help speak out here because I have the right to do that and am not being persecuted or censored like so many.
Girls need a fair chance at living without violence, receiving the same educational opportunities as boys, and of course equal pay for equal work is a big topic in the news.
I don’t want to hide and bury my head in the sand about any of these issues and, although I am unsure about hearing more on the crime that was perpetrated in India on this documentary, I believe we need to hear about it and to use any day that we can to talk openly about what we all deserve for our world.
I have a niece who deserves to be treated equally. I want that for her future.
I also have nephews who will hopefully grow up in a more accepting world and I know they will learn that women should be valued and appreciated. I know this because I know what amazing and capable parents they have, but not all children are so lucky.
As long as we allow ourselves to feel silly or overly sensitive, all stereotypes and negative treatments will continue to be permitted all over the world.
I want to recognize some truly wonderful women that I know, on this day:
My mother is at the top of the list. She is strong and wise and she always knows what’s best. Okay, so maybe that “mother’s know everything” line is a lot of pressure to put on anyone, but she handles it quite well.
I want to declare what amazing mothers my two sisters are. They are both quite new at the whole thing, five years or less of experience yet, but they have raised the sweetest and best children and they love with grace, bravery, and warmth.
I was able to take part in a blogging project centred around compassion, what we women are supposed to be pretty good at, and the ladies who first began 1000 Voices For Compassion are prime examples:
Reflections On 1000 Voices Speak For Compassion
I recently wrote a blog post where I mention several female bloggers and writers who kick ass at what they do. I wanted to include them again,
I have written a good number of posts over the past year, highlighting women doing spectacular things, of whom I admire:
These are some perfect examples of why I do not only wait for one day a year to bring attention to the incredible women to be found everywhere. I have my blog for just this very reason and I will continue to write about as many as I possibly can, right here.
Just as parenting bloggers come together to find strength and support in the words of one another, I have done this with so many brave female bloggers and that is why they deserve to be mentioned here and on this day.
Whatever the issue may be: equal rights, empathy in love in relationships, or whatever it may be I think we feel better when we speak up and really listen to each other.
The silences must be broken like the bursting of a dam.
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